Orgasms don’t make great hypnosis sessions. Not by
themselves, anyway.
It is very, very unusual that I do ‘erotic’ hypnosis in my
sessions. I can count the number of subjects who I have had jerk off in trance on
the fingers of one hand. And even then, it will only usually happen after
several sessions, and once we’ve built up a relationship.
There are two reasons for this:
Consent. It’s just wrong to put someone in a
sexual situation as soon as you meet them, especially a situation as intense as
erotic trance. Informed consent takes time, understanding that you can’t
possible have until you’ve become used to going under, and at least something
of a relationship.
You don’t need to orgasm to have an amazing
hypnotic experience. Whether you’re looking to experience loss of control, or
have a specific fantasy you want to play out, neither of those things are going
to be enhanced by me making you jerk off. The human mind is infinitely subtle
and nuanced, and there’s simply no need to jump from zero to a thousand miles
an hour when there’s so much fun to be had in between.
The best, most memorable hypnosis sessions I’ve done - for
me and for the subjects - haven’t involved anything sexual at all. Not a single
thing.
In the style of hypnosis I do, there’s certainly a place for
erotic or sexual experiences to be played out. If, and only if, of course, a
subject and I both consent to that. But the experience of orgasming in trance
is so much more pleasurable, so much more enjoyable, so much more satisfying,
when it’s valued and part of something bigger.
So, if all you’re looking for is erotic hypnosis, a quick
jerk off session and an orgasm at the end, you’re best looking somewhere else.
But if you’re genuinely interested in exploring hypnosis, trance, and
everything it has to offer, feel free to get in touch.
Consent matters in hypnosis. It’s wrong for anyone to try to make you do something you don’t want to, even (or perhaps especially) in trance.
That’s why I make a point of asking potential subjects up front what they want to get out of their hypnosis experience; and why we agree what’s going to happen in a session, before it starts.
But remember… consent is a flexible thing, and it’s completely okay to change your mind, or withdraw your consent, at any time. Whether you want to alter what’s happening in a session, or back out of getting hypnotised alltogether, you have an absolute right to do that.
Any hypnotist who tries to stop you is - at least - behaving unethically; and in some circumstances illegaly as well.
That said, if you do change your mind, I ask that you be honest and tell me.
Twice recently I’ve had potential new subjects back out just as we were starting a session… by ending the video call from their end, and blocking me. With not even a message to explain. Frankly, that’s just plain rude.
Especially when, as hypnotists, we give of our time for free. Believe me when I say that there’s good money to be made charging for what we do in recreational hypnosis sessions, if we choose to take it.
This isn’t selfishness, I want to know that you’re alright, and give you the chance to talk through any concerns or worries you have. Those who’ve chatted with me, or gone under with me, will know that I’m not evil, and that I genuinely care about YOUR welfare and want you to enjoy the hypnosis experience as much as I do.
So, please take the time to talk.
Remember: whether you get hypnotised is your choice, but so is good manners.
I get roughly 20 requests to hypnotize people a month; and simply don’t have time to work with all the people who want me to put them under. In fact, I usually only choose two or three new subjects each month.
There are a few things I especially look for in subjects, and these are how I choose who I am going to hypnotize:
A conversation. Don’t jump right in and start calling me sir, demanding to be hypnotized straight away. It’s rude, unnatractive, and I will block you. Be yourself, and be willing to have a conversation so we can get to know each other.
Realism. I love hypnosis, and am a skilled hypnotist, but be realistic about what you want to achieve and understand that sone things are not possible, or will take time to achieve.
Know what you want. Even if it’s just to ‘have a go’ at getting hypnotized. Don’t expect me to decide what will happen in a session by myself - it’s unethical and I’m not going to.
Be prepared to share some basic information about yourself. You might not be open about your interest in hypno, and that’s fine, I’m not going to tell anyone! But, I do expect you to be open with me, which includes telling me your name, your age, and sharing a photo. No photo = no trance, period.
And finally, understand that I select subjects based on a range of factors which include age, appearance and location. If you’re a cute, twink from the UK, chances are I’m going to be more interested than if you’re overweight, older, or hairy… that’s just who I am.
Hopefully that helps clear things up. If you’ve read this, and you want to talk about going under, get in touch.
This boy tried to resist his programming. He failed. Resistance is impossible. Now he is tied to this tree with hypnotic ropes… waiting for his master’s punishment.
Receiving commands from his master. He thought he was going to meet his friends, instead he’s on his way to master’s office to continue his programming.
When he signed up for a modelling session, the boy had no idea what he was letting himself in for. With the bright lights, the flashing, the spiral… very soon he was deeply under the photographer’s control. And then began a very different kind of photoshoot!