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I’m angry.

If you know me, you’ll know that I don’t lose my temper easily. But today, I’m angry. And I’m angry with a very irresponsibly hypnotist.

For some time, I’ve been aware of a guy calling himself “Hypnotistify”, “Louis Hypnosis”, and “Hypnotist__” online. He’s on YouTube, YouNow, and also apparently Skype. I’ve watched some of his sessions, and found them relatively entertaining.

Then, this popped up in my inbox:

First of all, I’m glad Chris (the subject in the video) is okay. What he experienced here is called an abreaction. It’s rare, but it can happen, and one of the most important parts of training as a hypnotist is understanding how to deal with it. Essentially, it’s about calmly reasurring them, bringing their awareness back into the room, and bringing them out of the hypnotic state before talking things through with them so they understand what happpened.

I’d recommend reading this, and this, if you want to know more about abreactions; but a quick search will uncover plenty of information.

Dealing with dodgy connections…

Now, I’ve had connections drop out on me more than once during online sessions. That’s why you always prepare by reminding the person you’re hypnotising that, if that does happen, they’ll simply come out of hypnosis completely and be able to deal with whatever they need to. Frankly, that’s a pretty basic – and, I think, obvious – safety measure for any online session.

If I thought that was all that was wrong here, though, I’d find this situation a lot easier to deal with. But it’s not.

Imcompetance, or worse?

Underneath the video is this comment, which was evidently posted by the so-called hypnotist ‘Louis’:

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Let’s get one important thing out of the way first, it is true that you can’t get stuck in hypnosis. Even without the safety suggestion I mentioned before, a person would, sooner or later, simply come out of hypnosis and be completely back to normal.

Now, onto the thing that’s really got my back up. Read Louis’ comment again. He says, “I had my suspicions … so I decided to see how you’d react, at least you got a video out of it right?” What does that say to you?

To me, it says that he deliberately abandonned Chris in the middle of a hypnosis session. At best that’s unethical, at worst it’s simply dangerous. Not only that, but my understanding is that he saw Chris having a, really quite serious, abreaction and still made the decision to cut him off.

I can think of only two possible reasons for Louis’ actions:

  1. Incompetance
  2. Maliciousness

If it’s imcompetance, then this video is a shining example of why anyone who wants to practice hypnosis should seek out some form of training. Even if that training is simply reading books, or watching online tutorials, paying attention and learning what you’re doing can prevent situations like this happening.

If this is a case of pure maliciousness, on the other hand, which is what Louis’ implies in his own comment, then I really don’t know what to say except that I hope as many people as possible online see this and understand how dangerous working with an untrustworthy hypnotist can be.

Louis, if you’re reading this…

Please either stop hypnotising people altogether or go out and get some proper training. It will be better for you and far, far better for your subjects. If you don’t, and you keep behaving like you have here, it’s only a matter of time before somebody sues you and you end up in court. You don’t want that.

And to everyone who might be thinking about getting hypnotised online…

I implore you to please, please ask potential hypnotists about their training and experience. You should only ever agree to let yourself be hypnotised by someone who have talked to, got to know, trust, and know the real identity of. At the very least, any reputable hypnosist will allow you to see and hear them on Skype (or whatever app you use).

As Chris himself says in the video description, “Being hypnotized can be a super fun experience, but it can also be extremely scary if not done correctly.” Have fun, by all means, but please stay safe while you’re doing it.

Cheers,

M

Orgasms don’t make great hypnosis sessions. Not by themselves, anyway.It is very, very unusual that I do ‘erotic’ hypnosis in my sessions. I can count the number of subjects who I have had jerk off in trance on the fingers of one hand. And even then,...

Orgasms don’t make great hypnosis sessions. Not by themselves, anyway.

It is very, very unusual that I do ‘erotic’ hypnosis in my sessions. I can count the number of subjects who I have had jerk off in trance on the fingers of one hand. And even then, it will only usually happen after several sessions, and once we’ve built up a relationship.

There are two reasons for this:

  1. Consent. It’s just wrong to put someone in a sexual situation as soon as you meet them, especially a situation as intense as erotic trance. Informed consent takes time, understanding that you can’t possible have until you’ve become used to going under, and at least something of a relationship.
  2. You don’t need to orgasm to have an amazing hypnotic experience. Whether you’re looking to experience loss of control, or have a specific fantasy you want to play out, neither of those things are going to be enhanced by me making you jerk off. The human mind is infinitely subtle and nuanced, and there’s simply no need to jump from zero to a thousand miles an hour when there’s so much fun to be had in between.

The best, most memorable hypnosis sessions I’ve done - for me and for the subjects - haven’t involved anything sexual at all. Not a single thing.

In the style of hypnosis I do, there’s certainly a place for erotic or sexual experiences to be played out. If, and only if, of course, a subject and I both consent to that. But the experience of orgasming in trance is so much more pleasurable, so much more enjoyable, so much more satisfying, when it’s valued and part of something bigger.

So, if all you’re looking for is erotic hypnosis, a quick jerk off session and an orgasm at the end, you’re best looking somewhere else. But if you’re genuinely interested in exploring hypnosis, trance, and everything it has to offer, feel free to get in touch.

M

Consent & Hypnosis: it‘s okay to change your mind. But, be honest!

Consent matters in hypnosis. It’s wrong for anyone to try to make you do something you don’t want to, even (or perhaps especially) in trance.

That’s why I make a point of asking potential subjects up front what they want to get out of their hypnosis experience; and why we agree what’s going to happen in a session, before it starts.

But remember… consent is a flexible thing, and it’s completely okay to change your mind, or withdraw your consent, at any time. Whether you want to alter what’s happening in a session, or back out of getting hypnotised alltogether, you have an absolute right to do that.

Any hypnotist who tries to stop you is - at least - behaving unethically; and in some circumstances illegaly as well.

That said, if you do change your mind, I ask that you be honest and tell me.

Twice recently I’ve had potential new subjects back out just as we were starting a session… by ending the video call from their end, and blocking me. With not even a message to explain. Frankly, that’s just plain rude.

Especially when, as hypnotists, we give of our time for free. Believe me when I say that there’s good money to be made charging for what we do in recreational hypnosis sessions, if we choose to take it.

This isn’t selfishness, I want to know that you’re alright, and give you the chance to talk through any concerns or worries you have. Those who’ve chatted with me, or gone under with me, will know that I’m not evil, and that I genuinely care about YOUR welfare and want you to enjoy the hypnosis experience as much as I do.

So, please take the time to talk.

Remember: whether you get hypnotised is your choice, but so is good manners.

What I look for in a hypnosis subject

I get roughly 20 requests to hypnotize people a month; and simply don’t have time to work with all the people who want me to put them under. In fact, I usually only choose two or three new subjects each month.

There are a few things I especially look for in subjects, and these are how I choose who I am going to hypnotize:

  1. A conversation. Don’t jump right in and start calling me sir, demanding to be hypnotized straight away. It’s rude, unnatractive, and I will block you. Be yourself, and be willing to have a conversation so we can get to know each other.
  2. Realism. I love hypnosis, and am a skilled hypnotist, but be realistic about what you want to achieve and understand that sone things are not possible, or will take time to achieve.
  3. Know what you want. Even if it’s just to ‘have a go’ at getting hypnotized. Don’t expect me to decide what will happen in a session by myself - it’s unethical and I’m not going to.
  4. Be prepared to share some basic information about yourself. You might not be open about your interest in hypno, and that’s fine, I’m not going to tell anyone! But, I do expect you to be open with me, which includes telling me your name, your age, and sharing a photo. No photo = no trance, period.
  5. And finally, understand that I select subjects based on a range of factors which include age, appearance and location. If you’re a cute, twink from the UK, chances are I’m going to be more interested than if you’re overweight, older, or hairy… that’s just who I am.

Hopefully that helps clear things up. If you’ve read this, and you want to talk about going under, get in touch.

Asking me to hypnotise you.

So, you want to get hypnotised. Awesome. But here are a few pointers if you decide to ask me to put you under.

  1. Read my ‘Get Hypnotised!’ page; it sets out the few rules about hypnosis that I have and explains how to get in touch with me.
  2. Online hypnosis needs Skype, a (decent quality) webcam, and a mic and speakers/headphones so that we can both hear each other. No cam/mic means no session - period.
  3. Expect to be asked for a photo, if you don’t send me one. I get lots of requests to hypnotise and, rightly or wrongly, I’m picky about who I choose as a subject.
  4. And most importantly, be able to have a conversation about yourself, and what you want to get out of going under. You don’t have to be an expert (or even ever have been under before, first-time subjects are some of my favourite sessions). But, hypnosis is about trust and consent; and that comes with mature and sensible discussion, not demands from the outset to be enslaved or made to cum - we can get to that later :)

So, please do keep all this in mind. I don’t want to put you off, but hopefully, this will help you understand my expectations so that you can tell me about yours.

Hopefully, I’ll see you in a deep trance soon!

HypnoMaster UK

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Skype hypnosis sessions with me available all this weekend. Click here to apply.

Boys ~25 and under only.